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bigjim
11-10-2008, 07:40 AM
Hi all,

I was just making a post to inform everyone that I just currently left my house. I am still trying to make it through University, and live at my parents house. I have been having some pretty hard arguments with my mom, so this was something that was coming in time. I am still going to finish my school, but now I have to work full time. I am currently living with my friends, and sleeping on their couch. Luckily it is a good environment, and I should be up back on my feet pretty soon. I probably won't be able to get on game for some time, but maybe sometime by the middle to the end of the week. I am really missing everyone; especially my hunting partner Kinsa. ;) Damn, if I am away much longer I may forget how to play. :looking:

I have a hard road ahead of me, but it is also good. I will learn how to grow up, and truly work for my own money. It just really sucks, because I am missing the game so bad right now. :( Well, enough of my sob story, and I hope all of you are having a good day/night. I am going to bed now, so I hope there are some good fort wars when I return.

Good luck all
Jim

Pizdzius
11-10-2008, 07:50 AM
Aw, dude. I am sorry it turned out that way for you. I wish you best luck on our path. Hang in there and we believe in you

bigjim
11-10-2008, 07:55 AM
Aw, dude. I am sorry it turned out that way for you. I wish you best luck on our path. Hang in there and we believe in you

Thanks, I have always been pretty strong spirited, so I am not too worried about it. I am just happy I am surrounded by good friends. :)

Inkster
11-10-2008, 09:12 AM
This may sound harsh but go home, bite your pride and apologise. Even if you are in the right.
Remember may have a lot of friends BUT you only have you only have 1 mom and through
good times or bad, she has had a huge impact on who you are - she wont always be there for you.

You may say that she has been on your case a lot or whatever but, she in her own way
will always look out for you

Angel_de_Combate
11-10-2008, 09:22 AM
Good luck THC xD

p.s.. see you around everyone..im done with the forums. Ill just be back every now and again to check the comic of course..take care y'all :)

Pizdzius
11-10-2008, 01:53 PM
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makarios68
11-10-2008, 03:49 PM
This may sound harsh but go home, bite your pride and apologise. Even if you are in the right.
Remember may have a lot of friends BUT you only have you only have 1 mom and through
good times or bad, she has had a huge impact on who you are - she wont always be there for you.

I'm not trying to be argumentative here, but i think there's a good case for not going back.

I base this on my own experience, when i was 19 (no jokes about that being a long time ago!) and i was falling out with my parents all the time, especially my dad.

I left the house in similar circumstances to how Jim describes, after a bitter argument.

The thing is, once i left the house and apologised for the trouble i'd caused, my relationship with them improved immensely.

From then on i made my own way in the world, and have always been close to them ever since.

Yet i realised that if i'd have gone back to live with them (and there were times when i nearly did), the same old problems and frustrations would have resurfaced, and my relationship with them would have suffered once again.

So Ink is right: your parents aren't around forever and you should realise how important they are to you. But for me that was exactly the reason not to go back home. Living in my own home, i had an excellent relationship with my parents, without all the agro.

Maybe it will be different for you, Jim, if you went back home. I'm just telling you what happened to me, and the reason i didn't go back, in the hope that it will help.

kinsa11
11-10-2008, 04:29 PM
The thing is, once i left the house and apologised for the trouble i'd caused, my relationship with them improved immensely.

From then on i made my own way in the world, and have always been close to them ever since.

That's exactly what I experienced. I didn't have a really huge argumentation before I left, but there have been problems all the time. Once I left and had my own appartment, money and life, the realtionship started to be better than ever before.

Good luck Jim and of course I miss you too :)

Crowbane
11-11-2008, 02:25 AM
Jim I hope it all goes well for you. Regnum will be waiting for you to return to her and as for forgetting how to play HAH!!!! thats all I can say.


Hurry back you are always missed.

Take Care

bigjim
11-11-2008, 02:56 AM
Damn, thanks for all of this advice and encouragement. I really say thanks from the bottom of my heart, and even me who is a tough guy "almost" teared up. :looking: I am not on horrible terms with my mom. We just have our differences, and we are both somewhat opinionated people, so honest I think this time I will stay away. I still will go visit my house, and do things that good kids do. ;) Going to school, and working is really hard on me, but I enjoy challenges; so I don't think it will be all bad. I am just so thankful for in times of need and trouble; I have this great community to turn to. It is unreal how much all of you have helped me in times of my life. Even if no one realized it... This game really means so much to me, and the people involved are what keeping me coming back. Once again thank you NGD for making all of this possible.

Well, I will go do some more pushups, crunches, and all of that shit. ;) I have nothing else to do, so I guess I can get in better shape. :D Btw, when I do return... get ready to see a fierce player behind the keyboard.

Jim