500-4000 ping with a 10 Mbps Internet

[FlyingDeadBirdie]

I just upgraded by Internet speed to 10 mpbs. THIS IS NOT MY CONNECTION TO MY MODEM (usually 52 Mbps) but my download speed. But my ping is still the same. When I run it's 600ms, when I stand it's 500ms, and when I fight in large scale battles it's averagely 800ms. I get frustrated sometimes as it jumps to 4 seconds or some horrible number like that. Is there any way I can reduce ping? I have downloaded things on the net recently from different global websites with speeds no less than 400 Kbps. Also, this bad ping has been around since my suckass 0.5 mbps connection. So it's not a change but rather constant that should have improved. Here are sone factors that might affect it.
1. My location. I'm in Asia.
2. Bandwidth hackers. (Im a little iffy on that one)
3. Lots of people on the server (Horus?)

if you can give me a solution, great! If you can't, then it's perfectly fine. My clan mates have not been able to help really and I figure it's because they're closer to Swedeb and they don't have ping problems. Please help, i'm not much of a computer guy.