I do not mind it much (and yes i am female)
I realize my in game avatar isnt even close to a true representation of myself anyways, and however/whoever decides to judge me on in game appearance alone..rather than by my personality..thats their weakness not mine.
either way though, i would still like the overall majority to prevail, whatever that may be, but there are more important game design flaws IMO that need to be adressed, and i would like the devs to focus on them, rather than the cosmetic and polish, till they have as stable and balanced game as possible