Does true love exist ... ?

[mann2411]

Originally Posted by GIGO305

in R & J they die for being idiots and falling in love with the family that their family has a fued with out of every other person in thw world AND the fuck on the first night! marry the second!!! they didnt have to marry but romeo doesnt know how to "hit and run"

can i help you with R&J? i did it last year learnt alot of stuff that i didnt really want to know. In life you can't really choose who you love i mean you can't just say yer i want her cause she has a hot body even though shes annoying as hell and hates me this is the case in R&J. also it was normal in those times to get married to the person at a very early age and get married to the person hastedly. Also i think (cant quite remember) that the main reason they married so early is because in those times you couldn't divorce and they saw it as a way out of juliet getting married and a way to end the feud.

i believe true love is there. The feeling of joy you get when the girl you love walks past isn't a stomach ache. Sometimes it may not work out, sometimes it may. yer thats kinda it. all i gotta say.

poor boger sounds like you've had some rough experiences but i can sorta see what your saying and can relate (in a different way).

[misaccc]

Meh....it doesent exist...as bog said after some time the best feelings fade away and you are left with boredom...thats why i hate long relationships...
Mec....dmc only wants your armpits!;D

[makarios68]

'Love' is a biological function engineered through natural selection to urge a couple to stay together long enough for effective child rearing.

But there's no doubting it feels good...

[Static_Fang]

Originally Posted by ladylaluna

In my honest opinion love is a very rare thing and not to many people get the real thing.
most people think there in love but most of the time it is physical attraction and just plain lust, maybe you share the same interests or he/she is successful nothing to do with love at all.

you will also find you can kiss a hundred men/woman and you will get a chemical reaction from very few of them, this makes for great sex but does not mean it is true love either.

you can grow to love a person but is that true love ? i don't think it is, although you can have a happy life with that person and believe you are " in love " its not the real thing in my opinion.

So in that case you have attraction/lust/leading to growing to love a person = happy and feeling you are in love.

if it wasn't so why do so many people stay with someone there not happy with or divorce only to do the same thing over again.

true love i feel comes when you have re meet your soul mate, the one person you search for though all your lifetimes but rarely meet and are together again.
when you do re meet your soul mate and the circumstances are right you will have true love again.
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Nice and scientific

As for that soulmate stuff. I feel only a privalidged few get a soulmate, once you do something nice, you get something nice you'know.

HOWEVER, i also have my doubts about it, going through my scientific mind:

"Love is a feeling generated by your subconsiousness to get you to do the thing all organisms were designed to do - BREED AND ENSURE THE SURVIVAL OF THE OFFSPRING. Once that has been accomplished the feeling of love is either replaced by false love generated by the person themself, or it dissapears and leads to divorce, an affair or an unhappy marrige..." (i could go on, but i have homework to do right now)

My ultimate answer is no, love is a trick of the mind used to ensure survival of the human species.

[Inkster]

Originally Posted by octopus

Oh, as a piece of advice: do not EVER get a tattoo with your lover's name..

So i guess it would be inappropriate if we all rushed out and the the name Surak, tattooed on our butts ^^

[misaccc]

No i met the right one....3 times and every girl was right at that time...but after some time...the feel just aint there...

[Static_Fang]

Originally Posted by Inkster

So i guess it would be inappropriate if we all rushed out and the the name Surak, tattooed on our butts ^^

I can so see the next scene,

Ink: Hey twink, look at this tatoo i got!
Twink: Ohh thats so...wait, why is there surak there?
Ink: Cause his my lover
*Beating and veeting insures*

[Static_Fang]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

Hmm my feelings do not trick my mind...i know my mind very very well..and besides love comes from the heart...

Another brainwashed...
Time for a lesson from Venom

The Heart: The heart is seen as:
- The symbol of Love
- The symbol of Life
What is known about the heart - The heart is an organ designed to simply pump the blood around the body and keep the right blood pressure at all times. Should this heart stop, the victim will most likely die unless syrgery is done imedietly.

The heart is also seen as the symbol of love, why? Because most people have the thought "To live for love to complete life", the heart, being the symbol of life was adopted as the symbol of love.

Love: Love is an EMOTION, emotions come from the BRAIN. All THOUGHTS come from the BRAIN, for the HEART is UNABLE to feel EMOTION because it is just a style of catarlac* MUSCLE. Love is a chemical reaction to make a person produce and look after offspring until the offspring reaches suitible maturaty and can look after itself. It could be as Twinkle said, and love may stay afterwards if the person if your soulmate, OR it could be what is known as 'false' love, with no chemical reaction, but the whole "pure" emotion of the person.

More homework to do (still reading though )

[Static_Fang]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

Brainwashed..i dont think so...i love him..its real..it feel it in every cell of my body..even over this awesome distance..my heart, my soul and my body are all for him...and he feels the same...love is a chemical reaction, but after the drugs wear off..whats left.. is just loving someone for who they are and what theyll become. That you can truly be yourself with this person, no hiding anything..theyve seen you at your worst and at your best..heres a song..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiaMvdceCCI

What if im right..and you know what, damn it... i am

Brainwashed as in "and besides love comes from the heart"
I do have no doubt what-so-ever that love exists. I just merely have different values about it to other people.

A simple misunderstanding, and damn it, you were right about "i love him..its real..it feel it in every cell of my body..even over this awesome distance" and i also know your right about "and he feels the same"

[ArcticWolf]

Originally Posted by Static_Fang

Love: Love is an EMOTION, emotions come from the BRAIN. All THOUGHTS come from the BRAIN, for the HEART is UNABLE to feel EMOTION because it is just a style of catarlac* MUSCLE.

Do you know what a metaphor is? It illustrates one of the main reactions of the body towards that emotion. A lot of adrenaline is freed to the blood, muscles get tight in order to make the blood vessels smaller and blood pressure is increased to make you blush. The heart has to pump the blood in a very extreme condition. All mammals go through this, so it's pretty natural :P

Love may be a trick of the mind... Even the mind is itself a "trick" of the brain since we're just mere chemical reactions, but hell it's real! And it's friggin' addictive! Besides there's nothing more altruistic and sublime than ensuring the survival of the human race.