Loving memory of Lisa - Page 4

Zodar · 01-17-2011, 11:44 PM

I've spent a few hours online with Sojourn, cnmne and Katibrie a few months ago and she's cool. If what you say is true, then I really hope she does get better. I think someone logged in with those accounts over the weekend incidentally.

However (and I'm sure your intentions were good and genuine) you have revealed an awful lot about her to complete strangers. Have you considered that she may not have wanted all this out in the open? If its something she's embarrassed about , or doesn't want sharing, then might this thread actually make her reluctant to return to the game?

If she has confided in you with something, then there was an element of trust that you should have maintained.

I think its great that you care, but in future, you really need to be careful about what details you reveal about other people. Not for your sake, but for THEIRS, because unless you've got their permission first, you'll never really know how they're going to take it, until its too late.

Vaylos · 01-19-2011, 07:14 AM

Not trying to be an ass or anything, but when I read the thread title, I thought someone died. When I read "In loving memory of" it usually makes me think something postmortem.

Anyway, I don't know the person, and I know displaying personal info is probably not the best thing to do even if it is in their best interest, but here's to hoping they overcome their current health ordeal.

Good luck.

01-17-2011, 11:44 PM	#31
Zodar Apprentice Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: UK Posts: 93	I've spent a few hours online with Sojourn, cnmne and Katibrie a few months ago and she's cool. If what you say is true, then I really hope she does get better. I think someone logged in with those accounts over the weekend incidentally. However (and I'm sure your intentions were good and genuine) you have revealed an awful lot about her to complete strangers. Have you considered that she may not have wanted all this out in the open? If its something she's embarrassed about , or doesn't want sharing, then might this thread actually make her reluctant to return to the game? If she has confided in you with something, then there was an element of trust that you should have maintained. I think its great that you care, but in future, you really need to be careful about what details you reveal about other people. Not for your sake, but for THEIRS, because unless you've got their permission first, you'll never really know how they're going to take it, until its too late. __________________ Zodar - The Evil Bald Fu^wPerson... Last edited by Zodar; 01-17-2011 at 11:45 PM. Reason: meh, typo

01-19-2011, 07:14 AM	#32
Vaylos Banned Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Coralville, IA Posts: 202	Not trying to be an ass or anything, but when I read the thread title, I thought someone died. When I read "In loving memory of" it usually makes me think something postmortem. Anyway, I don't know the person, and I know displaying personal info is probably not the best thing to do even if it is in their best interest, but here's to hoping they overcome their current health ordeal. Good luck.