Witness a true American female...

[Hell_bound]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

To give away power makes you weak..

Yes and no, again it's a matter of perspective...

For example, a person that gives up their last kidney so that their child can live...

This individual has given up all their power of life to another, but yet its the most beautiful thing any human can do.

It should be noted that the reason I feel so strongly about the the issue of female rights was because I was mostly raised by females...

And of the step-dads that I had they were abusive towards my mother and sister...

So giving up my "male privilege" always seemed like the most assured way to not become like them.

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

... Sounds like your werent being yourself there

Your right and that was because at that time I was unwilling to look at myself, the relationship and females honestly...

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

... Well seems like you have a strong personality all right..just you see the internet...you can kinda be whatever you want to be..im not totally sure..i mean be honest..wouldnt you have people baying for blood, if you were in real life like.. how you are here H_B ?

LOL! I do act this way in real life, but not as blunt. However, in all the times I been blunt in real life no one, and I mean no one, has ever wanted to do harm to me (even as a teen dealing drugs)...

See in realty I'm a very nice guy that you don't want to cross and people see that in my eyes, and how I excel towards the wishes of authority figures (either bosses at work, local public figures and such).

I know my place and I also know not only when to act but that I have the power to act (and so do they)

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

... 5 years for me..and way too long in my opinion now

Yes, at the end the 12 years it was total hell - something I would never live through again - I'd rather live alone for eternity.

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

... i.e she cheated on you..right ?

That is correct.


Hell_bound

[Angel_de_Combate]

Now im going to be very direct..if anybody was to post what i just posted before..would you have given a reply post as nice as that one ? (you answered all of my points perfectly, btw)

[Ironfoot]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

Its not about whether i wanted it or not.. >.> It happened and i took my responsibilties.. you said that being pregnant at 17 means bad parenting or a bad kid...my mum did the best she can.. and im a bloody good mum thankyou very much.. i have two very clever and very talented, well rounded kids, even after all theyve been through. It was my mistake not my parents and they supported me all the bloody well....you have no idea..its people like you who make young girls feel ashamed about something that in cases is just sheer bad luck. BTW what has me playing computer game got to do with anything..lame.

Your just being very judgemental.

Yes i am being judgemental. Thats the way i am. Im not saying u are bad mother, dont put words in my mouth. I said, and i can see from your post too, that its a mistake to be pregnant at age 17. kids making kids u know. Im not trying to "hurt" you, i dont care that much to be honest. I just want you to be honest. I asked, i didnt say.
Im not an enemy, to be an enemy, i must care. I truly dont, its just for the sake of the argument.

[Angel_de_Combate]

Originally Posted by Ironfoot

Yes i am being judgemental. Thats the way i am. Im not saying u are bad mother, dont put words in my mouth. I said, and i can see from your post too, that its a mistake to be pregnant at age 17. kids making kids u know. Im not trying to "hurt" you, i dont care that much to be honest. I just want you to be honest. I asked, i didnt say.
Im not an enemy, to be an enemy, i must care. I truly dont, its just for the sake of the argument.

Where did i say it was a mistake..where i come from you make the best from what you have..and dont whine your ass about it..i got pregnant..i cud have had abortion...privately, but i chose to keep him..life has been interesting..i love them a great deal..but if my daughter was to get pregnant..i would support her fully and know full well it was nothing to do with the way she was brought up. Thats what being a parent is about to listen to them, to support and to guide them and not to judge.

[Ironfoot]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

It was my mistake not my parents...

There it is.

[Towelie]

Simpsons did it!

[Angel_de_Combate]

Originally Posted by Ironfoot

There it is.

/pat you on the back.. well done well done

Well i can see from your posts that you will probably never be ready for kids, to make a judgement based on someones age is just crap..why dont you turn your attention to the scores of girls who have a baby "cos they want someone to love them back", or the girls who have baby after to stay on benefits given to them by the government..theyre the girls with serious issues, unlike me who made a "mistake" but was mature enough to stick with it.

[Hell_bound]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

... unlike me who made a "mistake" but was mature enough to stick with it.

/And with that Emily becomes the quintessential female of the women of the world in Hell_bound's eyes...

Bless you Emily...

But know your children shall be (and are) blessed as well...

[Angel_de_Combate]

Originally Posted by Hell_bound

/And with that Emily becomes the quintessential female of the women of the world in Hell_bound's eyes...

Bless you Emily...

But know your children shall be (and are) blessed as well...

<blushing> Damn what can i say to that H_B ?

[Hell_bound]

Originally Posted by Skatz1980

<blushing> Damn what can i say to that H_B ?

Just bask in the reality that you are a woman, who can roar as loudly as any male, but have the humility to love beyond yourself.

Truly the quintessential female.